Party Culture and Your Homegirls

Consent is everything. I can not stress that enough but every sexual encounter consent should be granted. Now I want to tap into another avenue. Risk management is when it comes down to females in situations that can take a turn for the worse. This is soley based on partying. The argument is "I shouldn't have to limit my fun due to niggas, drugs and alcohol". 

Baby girl, for your safety and being around niggas you don't even know, be aware of the possibilities when you become intoxicated and have no clue about what's going on. It's not your fault if something happens but if you're in an unfamiliar environment I have no clue why anyone would get completely inebriated and wake up not knowing what happened. Again it's not your fault and I won't place blame on you but it's also one of those things like you knowing what can happen and you're lowering the risk of what can. 

You ideally don't know anyone and you can't put your trust in people to do the right thing so you as a female should be mindful of such. I have never been raped but I will say I have been in places a long time ago in a unfamiliar environment and just wanted to get completely lit which was careless on my part. I also had a mother stress to me about the decisions I made which I was in a position to get myself into some shit I wouldn't remember. With that talk alone made me realize I need not to get fucked up in unfamiliar places and to also not get fucked up to the state of blacking out so I limit my intake especially when I'm not in my own home. You just have to be entirely mindful of people especially the ones that u think u know but realistically if they can rape u, that just means u dont really know them which is why u can't expect people to do the right thing. You have to protect yourself first. I also have seen females get fucked up and their homegirl is encouraging her to go get the dick from a absolute stranger cause they don't want to cockblock and foe the life of me, I can't understand why you would put her in that position. You should always be mindful of your situations. I seen a video previously of females intoxicated at a party and one thing led to another and sex was involved. You can't give consent when you're in that fucked up status. That video can easily turn into a rape situation because shorty can wake up and see this video and be completely creeped out about it and it was other females encouraging the shit going on in the video. That's trash behavior. You don't realize your own friends can be the reason for your life to change drastically. Women should be careful, that's my whole point. Not blaming you for what happened, but every situation should be looked at in different aspects especially as a whole instead of just "he shouldn't be doing that", you don't know that nigga, you don't know what can happen. Your "Friends" Don't Really Give A Fuck Bout You A male Lyft driver was called to pick up some people. It was 3 girls and one of their "friends" was fucked up. 2 of the girls thought it was a great idea to give the driver her homegirl keys and address only to tell him "Make sure she gets home safe" cause these bitches wasn't ready to go the fuck home. YALL DON'T KNO THIS NIGGA AND YO FRIEND is SLUMPED ... ANYTHING can happen and it's on your  watch (homegirls) but thankfully the dude declined taking them. All or nothing, dude could be a rapist and you have no idea. Can't put your trust in people cause they "look like they wouldn't do something". This is how your friends play a role in rape culture. A TAKE-AWAY If you can't consent when your under the influence why yo friends encouraging you to get some dick you can't consent to and they understand rape culture?  

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