Let's Chat: "Bashing"

OG Stuff
Apr 21, 2017
3 min read

Let's chat about Black Women finding the need to continuously bash Black Men but find such a great issue when that same black man decides to step outside his race.

In all honesty, black women can be toxic. *BOOM*

Yes, I am a black woman and I see the toxic behavior coming from other black women being aimed directly at black men. I, myself do not participate in this and I'm not sure how black women can come online everyday and find it necessary to make threads about how TOXIC, WORTHLESS, AND USELESS black men are and then turn around and have the biggest problem when he goes outside his race to date someone that isn't spewing the bullshit at him.

What do you do when you don't feel accepted and don't want to hear the bullshit associated with how black women have preceived you? You venture elsewhere! Can't even be upset, black women do it too but "everyone has to come together" *side eyes* "OK!"

But wait, these are the same women that see absolutely no problem with doing so and act as if they have fucked and been with every single last black man on this here Earth. What I will tell you is that there are some black men that fit their description and not all black women are toxic, but you can't group all black men in the same category. I also feel this is a deep rooted issue and they have personally encountered the wrong type of black men but like I said you can't group them all in the same category. But what boggles my mind even more is that black women can spew this bullshit and are out here, dating and marrying white men fueling even more hate towards these black men and white folks just eat this shit up just giving them more shit to talk about.

SIS, if u don't want to have dealings with black men why belittle them? If you are perfectly content with dating outside ur race why are you talking all this shit about your brother? This behavior is super toxic and as a black woman I find it entirely unnecessary especially when black men do the same shit they are doing in regards to bashing and the black woman gets all kinds of pissed.

Now I get two wrongs don't make a right but why is it so easy to dish the shit out and you can't take it? Now all of a sudden, "black men hate black women" but sis, didn't you make a 23 tweet thread about why you hate black men?"

This is where accountability comes into play and women, doesn't matter the race, they should be held accountable for their actions BUT because since being a woman is such a GEM in America and they have to be "protected no matter what", it doesn't somehow come with that responsibility which is bullshit. I also understand that standpoint and I believe it's honestly bullshit as well. I don't care if you're a woman even tho I am one also. If you're wrong you're wrong and if you have a father figure and he's a strong black man, why find the need to do this?

But not everyone can relate, HOWEVER.... if you want to hate black men, go ahead but don't get mad at the people defending them cause you woke up mad.